Laughter and Tears at the 02

23 Jul

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*Fanfare of trumpets* We did it!

Today, Michael, Clare and I conquered the 02.  Of course like most things in life it was more scary thinking about it than actually doing it, but even in overcoming our fears of inadequacy there was a challenge.   I’m a firm believer that it is good to be challenged – I’m prepared to push myself outside of my comfort zone and try something new, because I’ve learnt by skydiving and trekking in China that it leads to the best memories and insight into yourself.

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Clare, Tony and Michael

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We started with inevitable photos – Clare had organised for Town Crier, Tony Appleton, to proclaim our challenge – he looked wonderful in his full regalia but my goodness his bell and cries are loud!  Then we had a short safety briefing – we were all a bit nervous at this stage as they talked about ropes and harnesses, wondering what on earth was ahead.

We then changed into our climb gear including our harnesses (what a look!) and it took me right back to my skydive with wonderful Nikki.

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Michael and I ready to go

Then we were taught how to use our safety harnesses and away we went.

Funnily enough the first bit is a steep ascent (where you can’t take photos because they want to sell them to you!) and looking up at it, I was transported back to China and actually that made me feel better.  Hey, if I could climb those steps on the Great Wall, I could definitely do this and I remembered that I learnt in China that looking at it was much worse than actually doing it!  In fact, whilst it is steep, it feels a bit like you are walking on a bouncy pillow which is a little weird but it was absolutely fine.

The views from the top were fantastic – it really is a wonderful panorama and thankfully the threatening storm clouds didn’t deliver any rain.o2 panorama

After a steep descent it was all over too soon, so we headed for a late lunch.

Of course much of our talk was about Lynda Bellingham, Michael’s wife, as he remembered all she went through and struggles with his grief, which is still so raw.   I am truly grateful for his support for Bowel Cancer UK – he is genuinely helpful and generous with his time and that is exactly what we need.  Now we need more people like Michael to step up and help us stop this dreadful disease.

We also talked about Clare’s Mother Ann, currently in active treatment for advanced cancer.  Clare’s love for her mother is quite wonderful and I hope my own daughter will feel like that about me too when she is grown.  I’m sure Ann must feel very proud, as she has a beautiful, funny, generous daughter in Clare and we are blessed that she has chosen to support us.  Of course both Michael and I have everything crossed for Ann’s next scan.

For many people challenges like this are a piece of cake but if they aren’t your thing then the challenge is real.  So I feel proud of us.   I have enjoyed  laughter and tears with two wonderful people, started my fundraising and maybe even helped raise some awareness.  A good day.  Now for the next challenge…..

For more information about Bowel Cancer UK, please visit our website.

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